Sing & for Young

Sign Children

Anne Meeker Watson, Ph.D., MT-BC

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# A Guide for Early Childhood Professionals

by

### Anne Meeker Watson, Ph.D., MT-BC

Founder of SING.PLAY.LOVE.® Managing Member of Meeker Creative, LLC Kansas City, Missouri

Baltimore • London • Sydney

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Contents

About the Online Materials .....ix
About the Author.....xi
Foreword  Becky Bailey .....xiii
Acknowledgments .....xv

Introduction ..... xix

Chapter 1: Mealtime and Manners.1
Mealtime Mess
Picky Eaters
May I Have Your Undivided Attention?
Taste and Talk
SONGS TO SING AND SIGN.4
“Fill the Basket” .....4
Signs to Sing
Tips for Introducing “Fill the Basket”
Fun Activities to Share With “Fill the Basket”
“My Kitchen Door”.14
Signs to Sing
Tips for Introducing “My Kitchen Door”
Fun Activities to Share With “My Kitchen Door”
More Signs for Mealtime and Manners.22
Books to Read and Sign.24
Eat
Foods
Dance
Hungry
Manners
More

Chapter 2: Let’s Play!.27
May I Have Your Attention, Please?
Sing & Sign Is a Family Affair
Sing & Sign for the Senses
“Take a Walk On the Wild Side”.

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Tips for Introducing “Mommy Go ’Round the Sun”
 Fun Activities to Share With “Mommy Go ’Round the Sun”
“Roll the Ball” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38
 Signs to Sing
 Tips for Introducing “Roll the Ball”
 Fun Activities to Share With “Roll the Ball”
More Signs for Playtime . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42
Books to Read and Sign . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43
 Aunt and Uncle
 Ball
 Brother and Sister
 Chair/Sit
 Daddy and Mommy
 Grandma and Grandpa
 Moon and Sun
 Outside
 Play
 Sorry
Chapter 3: Fostering Relationships, Relaxation, and Rest . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45
 The Feeling Is Mutual: Mutual Versus Self-Regulation
 Emotional Literacy
 Supporting Parent–Child Attachment
SONGS TO SING AND SIGN . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50
“What’ll We Do With the Baby?” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50
 Signs to Sing
 Tips for Introducing “What’ll We Do With the Baby?”
 Fun Activities to Share With “What’ll We Do With the Baby?”
“Birdie, Birdie” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58
 Signs to Sing
 Tips for Introducing “Birdie, Birdie”
 Fun Activities to Share With “Birdie, Birdie”
More Signs for Relationships, Relaxation, and Rest . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 62
Books to Read and Sign . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64
 Baby
 Bath or Wash
 Bed, Sleep, or Night-Night
 Bird
 Blanket
 Calm
 Feelings
 Home
 Kiss
 Music, Sing, or Song
 Pajamas
 Rooster
 Splash

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Chapter 4: Utilizing Sign and Song for Routines and Transitions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 66
 Routines
 Transitions
 Piggyback Songs and Strategies for Routines and Transitions 
 Singing the Praises of Visual Schedules
 The Best and Briefest Advice I Can Offer
SONGS TO SING AND SIGN . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 70
“Walking Song” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 70
 Signs to Sing
 Tips for Introducing “Walking Song”
 Fun Activities to Share With “Walking Song”
“We’re Having a Bath” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 76
 Signs to Sing
 Tips for Introducing “We’re Having a Bath”
 Fun Activities to Share With “We’re Having a Bath”
More Signs for Transitions and Routines . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 84
Books to Read and Sign . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 85
 Bear
 Brush-Teeth and Comb-Hair
 Bubble
 Car
 Go and Stop
 Jump/Hop
 Loud and Quiet
 Run and Walk
 Shirt, Shoes, and Socks
 Wa it
Chapter 5: Sing, Sign, and Read . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 87
 The Perfect Combination: Songs, Signs, Books, and YOU
 Singing Picture Books
SONGS TO SING AND SIGN . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90
“Grandpa’s Farm” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90
 Signs to Sing
 Tips for Introducing “Grandpa’s Farm”
 Fun Activities to Share With “Grandpa’s Farm”
“What Color Am I?” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 96
 Signs to Sing
 Tips for Introducing “What Color Am I?”
 Fun Activities to Share With “What Color Am I?”
Books to Read and Sign . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 103
 Colors
 Farm Animals
 Friend
 Girl and Boy
 Rainbow
 Books to Sing and Sign

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Chapter 6: Following the Young Child’s Lead.....106

Face Time
Wait Time
Playtime
Self-Confidence and Competence
Child’s Choice

SONGS TO SING AND SIGN.....110

“Saturday Morning”.....110
Signs to Sing
Tips for Introducing “Saturday Morning”
Fun Activities to Share With “Saturday Morning”

“My World”.....116
Signs to Sing
Tips for Introducing “My World”
Fun Activities to Share With “My World”

“I Take the Music With Me”.....122
Signs to Sing
Tips for Introducing “I Take the Music With Me”
Fun Activities to Share With “I Take the Music With Me”

More Signs for Supporting Independence .....128

Books to Read and Sign .....131
Bicycle
Books
Clean and Dirty
Cold and Hot
Help
Hurt, Sick, and Safe
Toilet/Potty

Pictorial Sign Dictionary.....133

Suggested Readings.....145

References.....147

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# About the Author

### Anne Meeker Watson, Ph.D., MT-BC, Founder of SING.PLAY.LOVE.®, Managing

Member of Meeker Creative, LLC, Kansas City, Missouri

Through her writing, product development, and workshops, Anne Meeker Watson shares information about the benefits of music and play for supporting early learning and kindergarten readiness and gives easy and practical strategies for embedding both into the daily lives of young children. Her program is being used all over the country and across the globe, most recently making its debut in India, Nepal, and Bangladesh. Anne has taught music to students from preschool through college levels. She received the Excellence in Teaching award given by the Learning Exchange, Kansas City Chamber of Commerce, and the Kansas City Star. She was a commission member of the Vision 2020 Housewright Symposium on the Future of Music Education spon- sored by the Music Educators National Conference. Anne is particularly interested in developing the self-regulation and social- emotional skills of young children. She was invited to share her work at the National Training Institute Addressing Young Children with Challenging Behaviors. She has been a frequent trainer and presenter across the United States, including conference presentations for the National Center for Parents as Teachers, National Association for Music Education, Zero to Three, Division of Early Childhood of the Council for Exceptional Children, NAEYC Professional Institute, Head Start’s national organi- zation, and the American Music Therapy Association. Her research on music to sup- port early language was published in the International Journal for Research in Music *Education.* She is the author of the popular Baby Sing & Sign book series. Her music CDs for children won National Association of Parenting Products and Parent’s Choice Honors awards. Anne lives in Kansas City, Missouri, with her husband and two furry dogs. When not on the job, she enjoys kayaking, snacking, and dancing to the song “Uptown Funk” in her kitchen. She believes the world would be a better place if everyone would just take an afternoon nap.

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Foreword

Current research 
tells us that infants 
have surprising, 
adult-like 
capabilities in the 
way they perceive 
and attend to 
musical stimuli.

Much of today’s brain research has focused on infants and toddlers. The good news 
is that the continuing explosion of new information in this area has validated a lot of 
what we have always known to be true: The responsive, rhythmic dance of communication and connection between caring adults and young children drives development. 
Ultimately, it is connection—not the right toy or colorful mobile—that is at the core of 
human growth and development. We know that talking, singing, reading, and playing are essential for the healthy development of cognitive, social, language, and motor 
skills. We know that responding to our baby’s cues and clues is the essence of good parenting. What we haven’t known until more recently is the degree to which babies are 
capable of guiding and facilitating these processes. 
Every parent, grandparent, caregiver, and teacher has played their fair share of

capable of guiding and facilitating these processes. 
Every parent, grandparent, caregiver, and teacher has played their fair share of 
guessing games trying to figure out what an infant or toddler wants or needs. We have 
our standard guesses: food, cuddles, diaper changing, and other needs. Eventually, we 
decode the child’s gestures, gurgles, and grunts as we fine-tune our clue-reading skills. 
The temperament of the child determines how well they tolerate our learning curve. 
In  Sing & Sign, Anne Meeker Watson uses the latest in brain-based learning and upto-date knowledge of infant development to facilitate communication by empowering 
infants with sign language.
When I heard about teaching infants and toddlers sign language, my first thought

infants with sign language.
When I heard about teaching infants and toddlers sign language, my first thought 
was that we’ve exaggerated the benefits of brain research again. Closely following was 
my second thought: This makes perfect sense! Infants and toddlers understand more 
than they can communicate, and they already use gestures as a language system. Why 
not provide opportunities to deepen the language experience, empower the infant, and 
strengthen the adult–child bond?
I became an advocate when Anne first gave me her Sing & Sign book and music

returned to the home as baby Melissa learned the signs for MORE, EAT, and STOP.
What Anne has done with Sing & Sign is nothing short of brilliant. She has joined 
current research with the wisdom of the ages. The book you are holding combines music, 
teaching signs, and play to create fun activities that unite adults and children. There 
could not be a more powerful combination to foster infant learning. Current research 
tells us that infants have surprising, adult-like capabilities in the way they perceive and 
attend to musical stimuli. Human beings of any age are rhythmic, social beings with an 
innate need to communicate and connect. Sing & Sign takes what nature dictates and

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creates activities that foster the developmental needs of children from 6 months to 5 years old. By pairing music with sign teaching, Anne provides a way to build in repeti- tion and a meaningful context for learning a sign language vocabulary. This has special meaning for me because I still find my way around all tasks that require alphabetization by singing the “A-B-C” song from my childhood. As an author and speaker, I have come in contact with thousands of educators and parents seeking to strengthen their bonds with the children in their lives. They intui- tively know that strong connections foster a plethora of developmental benefits. Sing *& Sign is an exceptional tool that empowers both children and caring adults to com-* municate. Communication is the key to life. Sing & Sign for Young Children takes our precious children on a journey from surviving to thriving. I wish you well on your journey with them.

—Becky Bailey, Ph.D. Author, educator, and creator of Conscious Discipline, an evidence-based program of social-emotional learning, discipline, and self-regulation www.ConsciousDiscipline.com Oviedo, Florida, 2020

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*To my folk-singing family of four and all of the ways that* *“music was love and love was music” every single day of my* *childhood, as expressed so aptly by Mac Davis in his song,* *“I Believe in Music.”*

*I am especially grateful to my little sister Donna Lynn for* *more reasons than will fit on this page.*

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Introduction

Teaching hearing 
children to sign is 
an extension of the 
types of nonverbal 
communication 
they already use to 
get your attention: 
facial expression, 
gesturing, making 
noise, crawling, 
toddling toward an 
object of desire, 
and more.

Andy and I are playing a guessing game. 
This determined young boy of 13 months wants something from the toy shelf,

This determined young boy of 13 months wants something from the toy shelf, 
and I am trying my best to figure out what that might be. I list from memory all of the 
toys I have seen him play with this week that might be his current obsession: blocks, 
cars, puzzles, stuffed animals, action figures. With each of my incorrect guesses, 
Andy’s angst escalates. He soon adds foot stomping and loud screeching to his pointing game. His discontent is obvious, and both of us are becoming more frustrated 
with each passing moment. Various versions of this “game” are repeated throughout the day during our other daily routines, including snack time, book choice, diaper 
changes, and outdoor play. 
Andy is a man of strong opinions regarding his wants and needs. However,

Andy is a man of strong opinions regarding his wants and needs. However, 
he lacks the verbal skills to communicate those desires in a way that allows me to 
understand and help him. 
There is another more precise and effective way for babies and toddlers to get

There is another more precise and effective way for babies and toddlers to get 
their needs met. They can communicate their wants and needs using gestures before 
their vocal mechanisms are mature enough to verbalize. When you teach young children key signed vocabulary words such as PLAY, EAT, BED, HUG, BOOK, HELP, and 
MILK, you are giving them tools to solve some of their own problems. They can then 
let you know what they want, and you can respond consistently with the particular 
type of help needed: provision of a snack, more snuggle time, outdoor playtime, or 
reading a favorite book cover to cover three times in a row. 
Child psychologists Linda Acredolo and Susan Goodwyn (2006) first intro-

Child psychologists Linda Acredolo and Susan Goodwyn (2006) first introduced the practice of using sign language with babies and toddlers in their book, 
Baby Signs: How to Talk with Your Baby Before Your Baby Can Talk. They found 
through their research that using sign language with children at an early age supported the natural development of their ability to speak. They found that babies who 
learned to sign were less frustrated and often verbalized sooner than their peers. 
And, importantly, sign language strengthened the bond between caring adult and 
child. Acredolo and Goodwyn’s “baby signs” are gestures they modified from American Sign Language (ASL) to best fit the hand shape and developing fine motor skills 
of infants.
Teaching hearing children to sign is an extension of the types of nonverbal

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often contribute to even more frustration for the child. With 
practice and maturation, many children can learn and use the 
signed words you teach to request and comment. It is your task 
as a caring adult to interpret these early gestures and respond 
in a consistent and encouraging way.
In my first three Sing & Sign books, I introduced a pro-

In my first three Sing & Sign books, I introduced a program that is equal parts sign language instruction, music, picture book, play-filled activity, and fun. Caring adults use these 
engaging tools to intentionally teach their young children key 
signed vocabulary from ASL, the language commonly used by 
the Deaf community. Sing & Sign requires no special training 
or equipment. All that is necessary is a willingness to sing, 
sign, and play one word, one song, and one day at a time and to 
have fun while enhancing the bond you share with your children in the process.
There are multiple language and other developmental

There are multiple language and other developmental 
benefits your children will experience when you share this 
program, and we will discuss those in detail in the following 
pages. My first Sing & Sign books included the subheadings 
“Communicate Early With Your Child” and “Improve Your 
Child’s Vocabulary.” As you will learn while reading the book 
you hold in your hands, my focus has changed dramatically 
from communicate earlier and better.

My priorities for you now are face time, fun, and friendship—in that order! I want you to sing and sign in order to connect meaningfully with the children you love. 
The Sing & Sign program is an outgrowth of my work as a

The Sing & Sign program is an outgrowth of my work as a 
music therapist for a public school system in the Kansas City 
area. A colleague asked me to explore the use of music as a way 
to help infants and toddlers learn and practice simple signs. I 
wrote or arranged some child-friendly songs with lyrics that 
included basic vocabulary words. These often-repeated words 
made sign language practice simple and fun. Music proved to 
be a powerful and motivating tool for teaching sign language. 
Not only were babies and toddlers responsive, but their caring 
adults were having fun as well!
Here are some of the benefits of signing with infants:

Here are some of the benefits of signing with infants:

• The ASL hand shapes form “pictures” of the objects or 
ideas they represent. For instance, the sign for EAT is performed by tapping gathered fingertips to the lips, pantomiming the act of eating food. Babies expand their communication strategies quickly once they learn to use some 
key signed words.

• The movements of the caring adult’s hands while forming the signs are engaging and visually interesting to a 
baby. This expressive “hand dancing” combines with the 
animated face of the adult who is in close proximity and 
speaks with a voice that is truly music to Baby’s ears.

Even after toddlers begin to use spoken words to communicate, sign language continues to prove beneficial.

• Babies may not use signs to express their wants and needs. 
However, they are developing their receptive language 
skills, or their ability to understand the words they hear. 
They also gain awareness that conversations require turntaking. Caring adults speak and sign, and it is then Baby’s 
turn to babble, coo, smile, squawk, holler, clap, wave—or 
another of his adorable baby banters.

• Many schools and centers are teaching ASL signs to children birth to 2 years of age. It then becomes easier for caring adults and parents to communicate with a child if they 
both use sign to communicate. Also, when a child needs to 
move from one center or school to another, the transition 
is enhanced when both centers are using the commonly 
accepted ASL-based approach.

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• Sign language helps toddlers feel “heard.” The child has 
figured out that caring adults are crucial for obtaining the 
objects and experiences he desires. He craves an adult’s 
undivided attention to help him navigate his world. When 
you sign to a young child, you are making eye contact, smiling, and talking as you convey your message. Even if a child 
doesn’t always fully understand the meaning of the spoken 
words, experiencing a moment of shared listening and 
looking with you is calming and reassuring to him.

• Signs help toddlers retrieve words from their memory 
that are familiar but may temporarily be forgotten. For 
instance, the child may not recall how to say “elephant” 
but he can perform the sign. Seeing his own hands press 
together and rotate as he signs the word CHEESE triggers 
his memory of how to speak the word “cheese.”

• Sign language supports toddler communication efforts 
when he is tired or too frustrated to communicate quickly 
and clearly, thus heading off temper tantrums and meltdowns.

• Continued language learning and vocabulary enrichment

• Toddlers begin to construct meaningful sentences by 
combining signs, such as WANT-CRACKER or WHERE-
DOG? This is an important milestone for toddlers and sets 
the stage for their future grammar development. Signing 
songs gives toddlers plenty of opportunities to practice 
combining words because one key word that is signed and 
spoken naturally flows into the next. 
There are a number of great reasons to use sign language

• Effective way to reinforce rules and expectations, selfcalming, and emotional regulation

Teaching basic vocabulary words in ASL to any child 
at an early age may enable him or her to use these skills with 
toddler- or preschool-age peers who have hearing impairment 
or deafness. Because siblings often continue to practice their 
signed words with their younger brothers and sisters, many 
children starting preschool or elementary school are familiar 
with basic signs. The same words they use with the babies in 
their family may come in handy at play centers or on the playground with peers who are deaf or hard of hearing: “Do you 
WA N T to PLAY with ME?”

• Literacy development and book engagement

• Creation of an inclusive environment for children with 
language delays, autism, or Down syndrome

WHAT SCIENCE SAYS ABOUT SIGNING 
AND SINGING WITH YOUNG CHILDREN

For those who are interested in findings from the scientific 
community regarding infant and toddler language acquisition, here are a few excerpts from some notable research studies. Reference information is included at the conclusion of this 
book.
Dr. Elizabeth Kirk and her colleagues at the University

Dr. Elizabeth Kirk and her colleagues at the University 
of Hertfordshire examined the impact of teaching infants to 
gesture to communicate on their language development and 
a dimension of parent–child attachment they call “maternal 
mind-mindedness” (Kirk et al., 2013). The latter is described 
as a parent’s tendency to treat their children as individuals 
with minds of their own. They found no group differences for 
the effect of signed gestures on the language development of 
children participating in the study. However, parents in the 
sign learning group shared more reassuring comments with 
their babies and encouraged their initiative to explore. They 
hypothesized that sharing a gestural system of communication may have enhanced the attention and responsiveness of 
parents to the desires of the child.
Drs. Kelsey Lucca and Makeba Parramore Wilbourn

Dr. Erica Cartmill and fellow researchers examined the 
“socio-visual” context parents provide when they speak to 
their toddler-age children (Cartmill et al., 2013). According to

Drs. Kelsey Lucca and Makeba Parramore Wilbourn 
(2018) studied the relationship between a child’s pointing gesture and early vocabulary size. This is of interest to our discussion of sign teaching because it highlights a primary way 
that children gesture to communicate before they are able 
to articulate spoken words. Lucca and Wilbourn noted that 
their 18-month-old participants more readily remembered 
and labeled objects that they had first pointed to during play. 
Pointing outperformed eye gaze and reaching and may indicate a readiness and interest in learning about the things in 
the child’s world he cares about.
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the researchers, parents differ in the amount of visual information they naturally provide to a child as they talk to him. 
Children pay close attention to the gestures and facial expressions of their parents as well as their gaze at objects they are 
labeling when they are learning new words. The researchers 
surmised that this quality of vocabulary instruction was as 
important as the quantity of words taught. They found that the 
amount of visual information parents and caring adults provided to toddlers—including gesture and facial expression—
was positively related to vocabulary size at 3 years of age.
Dr. Michael Brent, a researcher at Washington Univer-

Dr. Michael Brent, a researcher at Washington University in St. Louis, found that children younger than 15 months 
learned words primarily spoken by their parents in isolation 
(Brent & Siskind, 2001). For instance, when they heard single 
words such as “go,” “carrot,” or “mouse,” they learned the words 
much easier than if they heard them in a longer sentence. The 
frequency with which the parent spoke a word was also a critical determinant of whether the child would know the word 
later. This finding supports the use of sign language because 
repetition and the practice of saying and signing words in isolation are natural elements of the sign teaching process. 
Dr. Jayne Standley, whose pioneering work in the field of

Dr. Jayne Standley, whose pioneering work in the field of 
music therapy has led to new techniques for treating premature babies, noted,

Music psychologists Drs. Anthony Brandt, Molly Gebrian, 
and L. Robert Slevc (2012) likened an infant’s discrimination 
of the sounds of speech to a type of specialized musical hearing that contributes to the child’s ability to learn language. 
They believe that a baby’s attention is first drawn to the emotional context of the language they hear as well as the rhythmic 
and phonemic patterns. Music as a form of “creative play with 
sound” captures the attention of infants as they organize what 
they hear on the basis of musical elements such as pitch, melody, and rhythm. As children grow, they begin to map sounds 
according to their meaning, but infants first experience language as a subset of music. They claim that “the rhythmic and

The research literature on music enrichment for infants and 
toddlers has been prolific. We know that music participation 
teaches music skills, perception, and cognition. Simultaneously it also promotes child development areas such as listening skills, language development, motor coordination, cooperative social skills and reciprocity, demonstrating the power 
of music to be a highly beneficial reinforcer for children from 
the moment of their birth. (2001, p. 70)

Standley’s research included the Sing & Sign program as 
a treatment variable to optimize language and other developmental outcomes of infants born prematurely. 
Music psychologists Drs. Anthony Brandt, Molly Gebrian,

expressive nature of gesture and sign babbling might be a sort 
of visual parallel to the music of speech” (2012, p. 12). 
I joined my music therapy colleague Dr. Cynthia Colwell

I joined my music therapy colleague Dr. Cynthia Colwell 
as co-principal investigator for a research study to examine the effectiveness of music and sign language as tools for 
promoting infant and toddler communication and enhancing parent–child interaction (Colwell et al., 2014). Parent–
child pairs were assigned to one of three play-based group 
interventions: Music Alone, Sign Language Alone, and Music 
and Sign Language. Groups of parents and their infants or 
toddlers met for 45-minute sessions weekly for 4 weeks. 
Outcomes for infant–toddler communication were measured 
utilizing the Early Communication Indicator (Greenwood et 
al., 2006). Outcomes for parent–child interaction were measured utilizing the Indicator of Parent–Child Interaction 
(Baggett et al., 2003). 
Significant effects were not observed for either research

Significant effects were not observed for either research 
hypothesis. However, the following trends were noted for 
the Sign Language and Music group that may contribute 
to improved communication and enhanced parent–child 
relationships.

• The Music and Sign Language group is the only group that 
maintained all of its 10 child participants. The group actually added parents because it was common for the second 
parent to arrive and ask to join in the planned activities.

• The researchers noted better consistent attendance and 
on-time behaviors for the Music and Sign Language group.

• More parents in the Music and Sign Language group asked 
questions about developmental stages and the utility of 
music to support early learning.

There have been numerous other studies examining 
the efficacy of infant sign language for “improving” typically 
developing infants, with mixed reviews and some fingerpointing as to whether the methodology and research questions of these studies pass muster. 
There is also the obvious question we must ask our-

There is also the obvious question we must ask ourselves: What about little children should we try and improve?

• The Music and Sign Language group was the only group 
that saw an increase, albeit slight, in all four areas as measured on the Early Communication Indicator.

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Let’s take a deep breath and remind ourselves of the following 
truths summarized here from the large body of accumulated 
knowledge regarding language, music, and early childhood 
development.

Developmentally Appropriate Practice

All young children benefit from explicit vocabulary instruction with frequent repetition of key concepts. They need the 
“deep dive” into a few words each day that you share repeatedly across the activities and environments of their day. For 
instance, they want you to show them a real apple as you say 
and sign the word APPLE. They want to see pictures of apples 
and apple trees in books. They would like to watch you slice 
apples at snack time, feel the slippery apple skin, and listen 
to you talk about the stem, core, and seeds of this fruit. They 
would love to show you how good they are at sorting real apples 
of various colors into different containers. A simple word like 
apple is not that simple for a young child. Explicit vocabulary 
instruction gives children a more complete understanding of 
the nuance and dimension of word meanings. It also paves the 
way for young children to be able to label, classify, and describe 
with the words you teach. 
Early face-to-face interactions with caring adults are

Joint attention is the shared focus of two individuals on an 
object or experience, and it is a precursor to spoken language. 
A child uses gesture or eye gaze to direct the attention of a 
communication partner to something that interests him, like 
a toy or a school bus. The child gazes upon the object of interest, then gazes at his partner, and then returns his gaze to the 
object again. Joint attention is the infant–toddler equivalent 
of commenting. The child can gaze at a wagon and then return 
his gaze to you, as if to say “You really should take me for a ride 
in that thing. It’s cool.” Perhaps he looks at the door, asking this 
question with his purposeful gaze: “When will my grandma be 
arriving to take me home?” Bids for joint attention by a child

Joint Attention

give caring adults the chance to respond and provide lots of 
great information such as, “I like wagons also. I especially 
like red wagons. Did you see the wheels on the wagon? They 
go around and around when the wagon rolls. Who would you 
like to have join us in the wagon when I take you for a ride?” 
This powerful means of nonverbal communication is necessary in order for children to master spoken language. Sign language can provide a beautiful bridge between joint attention 
and spoken language by enabling children to label, organize, 
request, question, and comment with increasing specificity 
using their signed words.

You Are the Most Interesting Person in the World

I hope you do not mind me saying this to you, but you are infinitely more interesting to young children when you add signs, 
gestures, motions, and facial expression to your spoken words. 
Singing and signing amplifies your potential to engage your 
young children in learning. I am not ashamed to say that I have 
worn battery-operated Christmas lights around my neck like 
sparkly jewelry to make myself more fascinating to watch as 
I read books aloud to groups of young children. Singing and 
signing songs as you dazzle your young audience with your 
most animated facial expression is the equivalent of a thousand kilowatts of Christmas light finery.

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Engagement matters. If a child is not attending to the 
activities and information you offer, then he will not learn and 
grow. Here are a few reasons why Sing & Sign helps children 
engage in the learning opportunities you provide.

• Singing and signing supports nonverbal participation for 
all children. Toddlers love to “show they know” information about the song or story you share. They love signing a 
word in anticipation of singing it as it occurs in a familiar 
song to show that they remember what comes next. Signing makes it possible for children to “sing” the song with 
their hands until their voices are able to approximate the 
lyrics. The circle time songs I plan always include one of 
three ways for children to participate that do not require 
that they sing: 1) dancing, gestures, or signs; 2) manipulatives such as scarves or kitchen band instruments; or 3) 
personal visuals that allow children to point to pictures 
on a page that correspond with our song repertoire. Some 
children require alternative ways to join the learning community of your classroom or center. Singing and signing 
allows all children to participate, irrespective of ability or 
disabilit y.

• Each child you serve has his own preferred learning style. 
He may learn best when he looks, listens, or moves to learn. 
Sing & Sign provides opportunities for young children to 
learn visually, verbally, and kinesthetically all at the 
same time. “Kinesthetic kids” love to feel the signs on 
their own fingers as they form the gestures. Providing activities and environments that incorporate all 
three learning styles helps young children stay focused, 
engaged, and interested in what you share.

• According to Dr. John Feierabend (2000), the author 
of First Steps in Music for Infants and Toddlers, young 
children can learn motions but must assimilate melodies. This means that young children beginning at 
around 8 months of age can imitate some simple signs, 
motions, and gestures almost immediately. They love 
to add those movements to any song you care to share. 
However, singing takes time and maturation to accomplish, and it requires coordination of lips, teeth, tongue, 
and breath. Signing allows young children to share 
themselves musically through motion. Think about how 
a tiny baby expresses his pleasure. He squeals and kicks 
his feet or claps his hands. Sign extends the “dance” as 
children use their hands and bodies as instruments to 
sway, sign, and “sing” along with the melodies they love.

Self-Regulation

There is a strong connection between language and selfregulation, described by early childhood researcher Dr. Megan 
McClelland as “the conscious control of thoughts, behaviors and emotions” (McClelland & Tominey, 2016, p. 4). Here 
are several effective ways to support a child’s emerging selfregulations skills through music and sign.

• You are an important “tool” for the self-regulation of your 
young children. Your voice, facial expressions, reassuring 
touch, and calming words can make all the difference to 
a child who is in the throes of a meltdown. There is even 
a special vocal quality called “motherese” that is universally shared by adults to comfort, connect, and converse 
with babies and toddlers. According to Elise Piazza and 
her colleagues (2017), this shift in “vocal spectra” results 
in a speaking quality that is resonant, melodic, and higher 
in pitch. The voice of a caring adult is indeed music to a 
child’s ears, whether the adult is speaking or singing.

• Teaching children to express feelings with signed and 
spoken words such as FEEL, ANGRY, SAD, HAPPY, and 
SCARED helps them develop emotional literacy. We 
want children to be able to complete this sentence: “I feel 
_______.” By narrating children’s emotional experiences

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throughout their day with reminders such as “You sure are 
HAPPY to see your FRIENDS” or “I know the sound of thunder SCARES you,” we help them realize that all feelings are 
okay. They can also begin to anticipate and manage their 
self-regulation as they experience the events and experiences that may likely challenge them every day.

• Using the spoken and signed word for CALM can help children recognize when they are feeling “just right.” Saying 
and signing the word helps them remember that when 
their body and mind are calm, they are ready to learn and 
play with others. Using the sign for CALM can also serve as 
a prompt for a child to take a deep breath, ask for a hug, find 
a quiet place to stop and think, or count to 10. Sharing the 
sign can be a cue for children to ask for support or utilize a 
strategy you have taught them to help them manage their 
emotions.

• Sign and song aid in the practice of self-regulation during social play. By encouraging children to use their spoken and signed words, such as PLAY, SHARE, WANT, STOP, 
HELP, THANK-YOU, YOU’RE-WELCOME, PLEASE, and 
SORRY, they are practicing problem solving, flexibility, and 
empathy. They are also learning the fine art of negotiation 
within their relationships with peers. Friends who sing 
and sign together enjoy a special kind of connection that 
only music makes possible!

Mutual regulation and emotional literacy will be discussed in greater detail in Chapter 3, Fostering Relationships, 
Relaxation, and Rest.

Neurological Enrichment

experience” (1990, p. 52) There are many core experiences 
that music and language share, including critical listening 
and processing of sung or spoken sounds over time. Music psychologist Diana Deutsch (2019) said it best: “Music and language are so intertwined that an awareness of music is critical 
to a baby’s language development” (p. 37).

Signs, songs, books, and play-filled activities are great sources 
of “brain food” for young children. Think of a newborn baby’s 
brain as a dense garden filled with vegetation. The garden continues to grow denser and lusher for a full year. However, the 
health and quantity of the plants in the garden are impacted 
by the amount of water and sunlight they receive. Some plants 
will flourish, whereas others will wither away. Babies are 
born with an entire “garden” of nerve fibers waiting to send 
and receive messages in response to stimulation. Thanks to 
educational psychologist Jane Healy and hundreds of other 
researchers who have studied infant neurological development, we understand that early experience matters. Healy 
said, “The strength and efficiency of synaptic connections 
determine the speed and power with which your brain functions. The most important news about synapses is that they 
are formed, strengthened, and maintained by interaction with

Songs, Books, and Word Learning

Songs and books are rich sources of rare words children will 
not hear in daily conversation. According to Jim Trelease, 
author of The Read-Aloud Handbook (2013), children’s books 
contain more rare words than we use in conversation. Songs 
are also a rich source of vocabulary words, including nonsense 
words like “dickory” and “eency weensy” that allow rhymes 
and phonemes to roll deliciously from the child’s tongue. And 
we know from lead researcher Jessica Logan’s important study 
on the significance of early vocabulary exposure that young 
children whose caring adults routinely read aloud to them 
will hear in excess of one million words by their fifth birthday 
(Logan et al., 2019). The words children hear and learn about 
in books and songs matter for future language, learning, and 
literacy development.

Dual Language Learners

Is sign instruction an effective tool for supporting vocabulary development of children learning a second language? 
The intersection of sign language, early communication, and 
second language acquisition has not been explored by the 
research community to date, with the exception of one study 
authored by Itzel Mejia-Menendez (2016). She examined the 
effect of sign language on the ability of primary-age students 
to learn new Spanish words. She noted a significant increase 
in the ability of children to recall new Spanish words when 
instruction was paired with the ASL sign for each word. 
To probe this question further, let us create our own

• Provide instruction within a social context. Children who 
sing and sign together are able to reference their peers in 
order to model the words they hear and see. The music and

• Pair spoken words with visuals. ASL is inherently visual; 
we create pictures of words with our hands. Adding signs 
can help children understand and remember the corresponding spoken words.

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• Honor a child’s silence. Children who are learning a new 
language are often silent observers initially. They want 
to speak perfectly before they try to say new words. Just 
as babies and toddlers must first work on their receptive 
language skills to gain an understanding of key words and 
their meanings, second language learners need time to listen to, observe, and study new words. Expression comes 
with time and opportunities to practice. Singing and signing make participation irresistible. Language learners 
cannot help but join in the chorus with their best word 
approximations.

• Make teaching risk-free and fun. Joining friends to sing, 
sign, and play makes participation less intimidating. It is 
easier to share words a child may feel unsure about, including in conversation when he is caught up in the joy and 
momentum of singing and signing with others.

Purposeful Parenting

Grandma Annie Meeker Watson is worried. I fear that parents 
have become far too distracted from the tasks of raising young 
children due to overuse of cell phones and tablets. When a 
parent’s eyes are on their phone, their eyes are not on their 
child. Parents can miss out on many of the early language cues 
infants and toddlers provide, including vocalizations, gestures, attempts to draw closer, playful initiations such as clapping or singing, and early word approximations. Once a child 
has exhausted this entire repertoire of lovely and adaptive 
strategies to get a parent to engage, he understandably melts 
down. And that is likely the time that the parent reengages, 
thus increasing the likelihood that Baby will skip all those 
lovely steps and go directly to meltdown mode. Visit www.
singplaylove.com/distracted to watch a video of a parent and 
child that highlights the consequences of distracted parenting. 
Parenthood is challenging. The demands one small per-

stick their phone in a kitchen drawer and take some time to 
slow down and take delight in the wonder of their child today. 
Signing is just another way to connect sensitively with a young 
child. And in exchange, he will dazzle his grown-up with his 
clever toy play, funny faces, surprising favorite book choices, 
and first sign approximations.

Mr. Webster defines the word fun as “what provides amusement or enjoyment; playful often boisterous action or speech.” 
I have my own working definition of the word, which incorporates this acronym: Full of Unusual Nonsense. I always “roll” 
with a suitcase filled with an assortment of fantastic items, 
typically purchased from the local dollar store, when I visit 
early childhood centers. These accumulated treasures may 
include brightly colored bandanas, kitchen band instruments, 
or enough little stuffed animals for everyone to hold and love 
their own. 
I like to think of myself as a specialist in Early Childhood

Singing the Praises of JOY

I like to think of myself as a specialist in Early Childhood 
Joy. There is nothing that gives me more pleasure than watching youngsters laugh at my ridiculous 3-year-old humor or sing 
and sign with their entire wiggly bodies. The best measure of 
my success as a “fun-ologist” is when we complete a song and 
at least one child exclaims, “Again!”
Dr. Beth Troutman, an extremely fun and knowledgeable

at least one child exclaims, “Again!”
Dr. Beth Troutman, an extremely fun and knowledgeable 
infant–toddler attachment expert, reminded us that joy is associated with curiosity and exploration, which are important correlates of learning. Attachment researchers call shared joy the 
“shared positive affect,” and this benchmark is, in Troutman’s 
words, “one of the cornerstones of healthy, secure attachment 
relationships between children and parents.” 
I will turn to the poets and philosophers for additional

I will turn to the poets and philosophers for additional 
valid “data” to support the importance of contributing joy and 
fun to the lives of young children. Here is a sampling of wisdom 
on joy and fun:

“Music. . . will help dissolve your perplexities and purify your 
character and sensibilities, and in time of care and sorrow, 
will keep a fountain of joy alive in you.” 
—Dietrich Bonhoeffer

“To get the full value of joy,  you must have someone to divide it 
with.” —Mark Twain

—Dietrich Bonhoeffer

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And finally, I hope that you and I will always act upon this 
truth for the self-esteem and daily happiness of young children:

“When your child walks into a room, does your face light up?” 
—Toni Morrison

The Combined Benefits of Sing & Sign and YOU

When you share sign instruction by utilizing the engaging 
tools of music, books, and play and “deliver the goods” within 
the nurturing and responsive relationship you provide to each 
child, you are providing a benefit that is greater than the sum of 
each part. I laughingly suggested to my wonderful editor that 
the title of this book should be SING & SIGN for Young Children 
Who Are Typically and Atypically Developing to Support Early 
Language, Self-Regulation, Social Relationship, Mindfulness, 
Self-Determination, Literacy Concepts, Multi-Sensory Experience, Vocabulary Development, Parent–Child Attachment, 
Joy and Laughter but Mostly FUN. She tactfully reminded me 
that this title would not fit on the spine of the book. 
Julia Luckenbill is the coordinator of the Infant–Toddler

Julia Luckenbill is the coordinator of the Infant–Toddler 
Program at the Center for Child and Family Studies Laboratory School, University of California–Davis. She had the following to say about the potential of song and sign to enrich the 
lives of young children:

No two people—or voices or songs—are identical. Celebrate the unique and amazing qualities of your children.

Music and sign language provide powerful and important ways to communicate and connect with others. Mr. Fred 
Rogers spoke fondly of music when he said, “Finding ways to 
harmonize our uniqueness with the uniqueness of others can 
be the most fun—and rewarding—of all” (2003, p. 131). I have 
made a career of teaching children identified as having special 
needs. However, I have never met a young child who doesn’t 
have “special needs.” Each is unique in his strengths and 
challenges, his favorite foods and colors, the way he prefers to 
learn, what makes him laugh out loud, and the unique way he 
looks at his world.
No two people—or voices or songs—are identical. Cel-

A Few Reasons Why You Should Never Sing & Sign

Sing & Sign is a program to teach young children key signed 
vocabulary words through playful face-to-face interactions 
with caring adults. Our goals are face time, friendship, and 
FUN. We have discussed at length the potential benefits of the 
program, addressing our why for sharing Sing & Sign with the 
children we care for and teach. 
Our how is equally important, because the objective is

Our how is equally important, because the objective is 
to never teach sign language in isolation. The context of our 
sign teaching is always engaging and neurologically rich, and 
it utilizes the important teaching tools of music, picture book 
reading, and playful activity within nurturing relationships 
with caring adults. 
You know your goals, teaching style, and personality,

You know your goals, teaching style, and personality, 
and you may find singing and signing to be a chore instead of 
a pleasure. 
Sing & Sign may not be the program for you if either of

Sing & Sign may not be the program for you if either of 
these two reasons applies:

1. You are uncomfortable singing in front of others, even your 
most devoted and fervent toddler fans. I promise you that 
your youngsters are truly not tiny American Idol judges. 
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glorious singing voice. The practice of sharing your voice 
with your children is a lovely and generous way of offering 
your most authentic self. If you are still unconvinced that 
singing and signing could be fun for you as well as your 
children, then take your children on a nature walk instead 
or let them help you make blueberry pancakes.

2. Your goal is to make sure that your children talk better or 
sooner. There is very little research evidence to recommend infant sign language solely for that purpose. More 
importantly, focusing on accelerating child development 
is ill advised and can actually be detrimental to your 
youngsters. Childhood is not a destination; it is a journey. 
It is our task as caring adults to create environments that 
allow children to gradually unfold to become the truest 
and most genuine version of themselves. The reality is that 
sign language instruction during infancy and toddlerhood 
is seldom required for children to learn to talk. However, 
the beauty of Sing & Sign is that it offers a combination of 
engaging activities that joyfully engage children in language loving within nurturing adult relationships. And in 
the process, you are creating memories that will last a lifetime.

TEACHING YOUNG 
CHILDREN TO SING AND SIGN

The  Sing & Sign program is a fun collection of songs, play 
activities, and picture book suggestions that can be used to 
help infants and toddlers learn signed words to communicate 
their wants and needs before they are able to speak. As young 
children grow, they can continue to enjoy the music and play of 
the program with both speech and signs. There are numerous 
benefits to sharing the Sing & Sign program with preschoolers 
as well. They love to “do” the songs and books with their hands 
as well as their voices. The visual nature of sign helps children 
retrieve and recall word meanings as they interpret the “pictures” they form with their small hands. Abstract concepts, 
like feelings, can be difficult for preschoolers to understand 
and verbalize. Signing is a great strategy to teach words such 
as HURT or HAPPY in a concrete way. This gives real meaning 
to the words preschoolers hear and say.
Sing & Sign is a unique approach to teaching sign lan-

Sing & Sign is a unique approach to teaching sign language to young children. The program uses music, picture 
books, simple play materials, and games to help you and your 
young children learn and practice a variety of easy and essential words from ASL that can be used in meaningful communication. Sing & Sign teaching resources include a printed guide, 
repertoire of 13 recorded songs, and instructional videos that 
include sign instruction and full signed performances of the 
song repertoire. In addition, there are supplemental visuals to 
share with your children to support their participation. 
The songs feature basic ASL words that children can

The songs feature basic ASL words that children can 
learn and practice as they enjoy listening to the songs. Sing & 
Sign helps a child make important connections between the 
objects and events in her life and their meaning.
Let’s review a few essential practices to start you off right!

Let’s review a few essential practices to start you off right!

• I recommend that you begin sharing some signed words 
with babies at around 6 months of age, corresponding 
with their ability to sit up independently. This allows their 
hands to freely move and begin to imitate some of your 
movements such as clap, point, wave, and pat.

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• Make your sign teaching a natural and consistent part of 
your day. Language learning requires a meaningful context that you provide through songs, books, play, and your 
nurturing and attentive relationship with children.

• Repetition is good, repetition is good, repetition is good. 
Sing the songs often. Practice may not make perfect, but it 
certainly does help children learn to sign words as they listen to the music. The song helps to organize and energize 
their sign performance and creates momentum that contributes to their sign success.

• Take “baby steps” in incorporating the ideas from this 
book into your practices. Play with a song or a sign for as 
long as it takes for both of you to feel confident.

About the Signs

The signs and words included in the book were specifically 
selected to help children express their wants and needs. Using 
signs such as WA N T and HELP gives youngsters the power to 
let caring adults know specifically what they desire. As children learn new signs, they begin to combine them to better 
communicate their intentions: PLEASE-FOOD, HELP-TOY. 
Animal and food signs are included because they are very 
motivating for young children to learn and use. Children love 
to point out animals they recognize in picture books, or at the 
park or zoo, and sign their names. And we all love our FOOD
choices—me included! 
There are three common terms used to describe the ges-

About the Songs

There are three common terms used to describe the gestures of children as they learn to sign. They are ASL signs, sign 
approximations, and invented signs. 
ASL signs are the words of the complete and complex visual

Sign approximations are the child’s best try at imitating a 
signed word as it is modeled for her. With maturation and 
opportunities to practice, a child’s motor imitation skills 
typically increase in precision and more closely match the 
model you provide.

melodies are simple but musically interesting to your children. They will recognize and respond to the tunes, each with 
its own distinctive rhythm and instrumentation. They will 
have their favorites they will want to hear over and over again. 
You will grow tired of these songs before your children ever do! 
With each repetition, they will gain confidence and precision 
over time as they add signed and spoken words to your performance. They will delight in any new verses you would like to 
create to personalize the songs and extend the fun and learning. For example, the “My World” song could include a “DUCKS
for quacking” or BATH for SPLASHING” verse. 
When used as a language development program, I recom-

ASL signs are the words of the complete and complex visual 
language used by deaf adults that includes gestures, facial 
expressions, and postures of the body.

When used as a language development program, I recommend singing these songs with children from birth to 6 years 
of age. However, the songs are inviting to children of all ages, 
and many parents enjoy singing them at home. Our Sing & 
Sign families have shared with me that the benefit of including 
music in their life has endured long after their children have 
learned to speak.
With each song presented in the book, you and your child

With each song presented in the book, you and your child 
will learn new signs and practice musical as well as communication skills that are playful and developmentally appropriate. And don’t worry: no special training or equipment is necessary other than a device for downloading and playing the 
recorded music. The materials you need for the play activities 
are typically at hand in your center, school, or home. All that is 
necessary is a willingness to play and an interest in allowing 
your children to direct their own learning adventure!

For each song shared, the following resources are 
included:

About the Sing & Sign Book

Chapters 1 through 6—the centerpiece of the book—focus 
on selected themes in early childhood development and education. Each chapter includes two or three songs that relate 
to the focus of the chapter. For instance, Chapter 1 describes 
challenges around feeding and includes signs and strategies 
for mealtime routines and expressing manners. The two songs 
in the chapter are “Fill the Basket” and “My Kitchen Door.” 
For each song shared, the following resources are

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are those already taught in Sing & Sign songs previously 
presented.

• Explanation of the origin of the song. A short story describing the origin of the adapted song or the author and composer’s inspiration for writing the melody and lyrics is 
included here.

• Song lyrics with suggestions for gestures, motions, or 
signed words to include as you listen and sing along. The 
suggested gestures are also bolded in the song lyrics. Note: 
A complete performance with suggested signs is provided 
in the instructional video for each song.

• Musical score with guitar chords

• Signs to Sing provides photographs along with directions 
for performing each sign you may use to accompany the 
song, as well as the description of a possible child approximation of the sign. A photograph of an adult model signing the word is included along with a photograph of a child 
model demonstrating a possible approximation of the sign. 
Due to the limitations of little hands, it is difficult to perform some hand shapes and combinations of movements.

• Tips for Introducing the song gives ideas for how to teach 
the song as well as the signs listed at the beginning of the 
chapter.

another effective way to practice sign language vocabulary. 
The  Pictorial Dictionary is included at the back of the 
book. There you will find all of the signs and photos of the adult 
model shared in the book. These pages can be duplicated for 
quick reference.

• Fun Activities to Share describes additional activities 
designed to extend music and sign language learning while 
helping to maintain the child’s interest. The activities can 
be customized to suit the developmental stages of your 
children. As a supplement to the infinite number and types 
of commercial toys, these simple play strategies utilize 
materials you have readily at hand and are creative and 
inexpensive. Using homemade toys for play also teaches 
children that toys do not have to come from a store.

Each chapter also includes a list of additional useful signs 
that support the theme of each chapter. And finally, “Books to 
Read and Sing” contains a list of picture books recommended 
for infants and toddlers that fit the theme and vocabulary of 
a given chapter. Let this list be a starting point as you explore 
other titles at your local library or bookstore. Book engagement is an important predictor of reading success, as well as 
another effective way to practice sign language vocabulary. 
The  Pictorial Dictionary is included at the back of the

The pronouns he and she are used alternately in each 
chapter to refer to young children who will use the program.
Early childhood professional refers to any person who

Early childhood professional refers to any person who 
directly works with young children from infancy to age 8. 
These professions include teacher, caregiver, social worker, 
educational assistant, parent educator, early childhood consultant, administrator, instructional coach, early interventionist, or therapist.
“Caring adult” refers to any adult who enjoys a nurturing

“Caring adult” refers to any adult who enjoys a nurturing 
relationship with a young child in their role as an early childhood professional, parent, or other guardian inside or outside 
of the home. Given the growing diversity of families, please 
modify the song texts and other activities as needed to fit the 
family structures of the children you serve.

Get Started Singing and Signing

Here is the step-by-step plan for using all of the resources provided to share the Sing & Sign program pronto!

1. Take the time to peruse your Sing & Sign book. Read this 
Introduction thoroughly to gain an overview of the program. 
Review the songs in Chapter 1 to prepare to share them 
with your children. Practice some of the targeted signs as 
you read the song lyrics.

2. Download the songs you will sing with your children. See 
the About the Downloads page in the front of this book. You 
can then easily import your songs into any digital music 
player or desktop software you use, such as iTunes. Be certain to save the song files to an alternate location for safe 
keeping. 
3. Sing a tune with or without the recorded performance until

HUNGRY.
  Limit the number of signs you teach so that you do not 
overwhelm your children with motor activity or take away

When you believe your children are familiar with the 
song, add one or two signed words to your performance. 
To do so, take your cues from your children. Decide what 
signed word suggestions included in the guide fit the 
interests and preferences of your children. The “Kitchen 
Door” song includes many signs for animals as well as food 
choices and other basic words such as E AT, MOR E , and 
HUNGRY.
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Observe the faces and actions of your children as you 
sing and sign for the following:

• Are they smiling?

• Are they watching you?

• Are they looking at their friends?

• Are they imitating the signs and motions you share, 
or at least an approximation of the movements?

• And most important of all, do they appear to be having
fun?

• Will they ask to sing the same song again tomorrow?

These are the measures of your Sing & Sign success. 
Add new songs and signs over time so that you are always 
enjoying something new and something mastered.

4. Watch the instructional videos for the songs you will sing 
and sign first. See the About the Downloads page in the 
front of this book. There is also an instructional video specifically for teaching the additional useful signs that support the theme of each chapter.
  You can quickly navigate to the section of each video

You can quickly navigate to the section of each video

you would like to review by noticing the title colors as you 
fast forward: yellow for target sign instruction, red for 
bonus sign instruction, tan for sign review, and blue for the 
song performance.

5. Add a Sing & Sign routine to your daily schedule. Sing & 
Sign is a process that allows you to capture the attention of your children with music and teach sign language 
in such a playful way that children never realize they are 
learning new skills. The program is designed to enhance, 
rather than complicate, your child’s and your daily routine. 
Be consistent so that your children can predict that they 
will sing, sign, play, and have fun with you and their friends 
every day. Your Sing & Sign routine should never last longer than 10 minutes. Add a picture book of your choice to 
read and include some key signed words. Then, it is time to 
transition to an activity the child loves, such as free play or 
outdoor time. 
  Reproducible song cards are available for you to cre-

Reproducible song cards are available for you to create your own visual schedule for your Sing & Sign routine. 
See the About the Downloads page in the front of this book.

6. Use Sing & Sign across the routines and environments of 
your day. Use the signs you teach in conversation with 
your children at snack, free play, outdoor time, arrival, 
and dismissal. The songs are infinitely portable and don’t 
require the recorded version for you to add a song as a 
transition activity or while you are waiting for friends to 
wash hands or setting up for snack. Mastering the meaning of words requires repetition and deep understanding of 
a word across its contexts. For example, balls come in all 
different sizes, colors, and textures. Point out pictures of 
balls in books, make balls available at play centers and the 
outdoor play area, plan a ball-rolling game for circle time, 
and ask children to tell you about the balls they play with 
at home. Songs provide one meaningful setting for contextual information about words. Think of all of the other 
ways you can reinforce word learning by signing as you 
read, eat, play, and interact.

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represent the signed words you teach. Your children can 
demonstrate their receptive language skills by pointing in 
response to your questions, such as “Touch the HORSE” or 
“Where is the PEACH?” They can also flex their expressive 
language “muscles” when you ask them the name of something on the song page. You and your young child will both 
be proud when you point to MOUSE and she touches her 
nose to sign this word.

Teaching Young Children to Sign

Here is a step-by-step guide for teaching sign language to 
young children. You will observe this progression in most of 
your young signers. However, you and I both know that there 
may be nothing typical about the growth and change of some 
of your typically developing children. Many begin to speak 
before they use signed words expressively. There are still wonderful receptive language benefits for participating in sign 
learning with you, including focused listening and learning 
and a deepened understanding of word meanings.

Step One: Children Imitate Gestures

Remember how excited we are as parents when our child 
first waves “bye-bye” to Grandma or raises her hands above 
her head to show you she is “so big”? These simple gestures 
are examples of ways we commonly teach children to imitate 
our playful motions. Your first assignment as a sign language 
teacher is to help your children imitate the movements you 
make with your hands. By engaging their attention with your 
facial expressions and your speaking or singing voice, your 
children will watch you intently as you speak and sign. With 
lots of repetition of this Imitation Game, children will likely 
copy your motions when they are ready and able.
When children are able to look at your hands and then

When children are able to look at your hands and then 
copy your motion with their own hands, they can begin to plan 
their motor motions and improve the precision of their imitation skills. By watching you gesture and then taking a turn 
themselves, they also learn that language is a reciprocal process; each person takes a turn. Praise your children for taking 
a turn signing the word you are teaching or “talking with your 
hands.” 
To begin teaching signs to your children, think about the

To begin teaching signs to your children, think about the 
typical activities of your day together. Do your children have 
preferred toys, activities, foods, or family members? Pick a 
set of five to six signed words to begin teaching to your child. I 
suggest you start with words that are highly functional, such 
as  E AT, PL AY, and MUSIC. They are broad enough and can 
be repeated many times during the children’s day. There are 
always opportunities to eat, play, and listen to music. Let your 
children direct you in selecting words that have importance to 
them. Start with what children care about the most.
Early childhood development includes acquiring fine

• Infants and toddlers like signs that mirror the same 
motion on either side of their body, such as ALL-DONE or 
PLAY. They may add their second hand to mirror a sign you 
model. For example, they may sign CAT by adding “whiskers” on both side of their face instead of just one side.

Here are a few you can anticipate:

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Infants and toddlers may perform one of the two different 
motions on both sides of their bodies.

• Crossing the middle of their body with one or both hands is 
also difficult for infants and toddlers. This is called crossing midline and is necessary for signed words RAINBOW
and MUSIC. You will probably see them perform the sign on 
either side of their bodies and skip the crossover motion. 
They may also imitate the gesture in the center of their 
bodies rather than crossing to either side.

• Infants, toddlers, and many preschoolers do not know 
where to place a sign, particularly if it occurs on or near the 
face. Try gently touching the child’s face or body to show 
them where to place their own fingers to imitate the sign. 
For instance, you can touch their chin when you say and 
sign the word MOTHER.

Some children may require one-to-one time with you in 
order to master the imitation necessary for signing. Consider 
where a child responds best to your voice and hands.

• Perhaps she would like to sit in your lap, in a rocking chair, 
or on the floor with her back to your chest so that she can 
hear you sing or speak and see you sign the words in front 
of her body. She may place her hands on your hands or arms 
and “take a sign language ride” as her hands simply hold on 
while you sign.

• Transitions are great opportunities to engage her in sign 
learning. Welcome her to school with a hug and a sign or 
two. Ask her to WA IT to first put away her backpack, and 
then GO to PLAY. Praise her for doing a great job of WA SH-
ING her hands after POTTY. Remind her that she makes 
you HAPPY as you buckle her into her car seat at the end of 
your day.

• She may want to sit in your lap facing you so that you are 
close and she can feel and smell you as she watches your 
hands. You will have the benefit of eye contact with her and 
can add your animated facial expression to amplify her 
interest in your shared signing.

Step Two: Children 
Understand Spoken and Signed Words

Before children can express their wants and desires using sign 
language, they must first understand the words and signs. The 
ability to receive and understand information is called receptive language. You are checking her receptive language skills 
any time your child responds to your spoken words by looking 
at or reaching for the item you have requested.

• For instance, put a bottle or cup of water in front of a child 
and tell her, “Here is your WATER. Take a drink.” Does she 
follow this simple direction?

• Does she look at the horse or touch the picture with her finger when you read a book together and you ask her, “Where 
is the horse in the picture?”

face. Try gently touching the child’s face or body to show 
• Give her several toys and ask her to hand you the ball, the 
them where to place their own fingers to imitate the sign. 
dog, or the bear. Does she hand you the toy you request? 
For instance, you can touch their chin when you say and

Practice these types of simple receptive language tasks 
with your children. Their responses to your questions or 
requests may be subtle: a glance at the object you discuss, a 
raised eyebrow, a startled look, a smile. What words do your 
children understand?
After your children can imitate your motions and under-

children understand?
After your children can imitate your motions and understand your spoken words, they learn the connection between 
the gesture and the meaning of the word itself. Your children 
may believe you are praising them because they are so adorable when they tap their little chins and fail to realize that 
the chin tapping is actually the sign for WATER. By repeatedly pairing the gesture with the spoken word, you teach your 
children that their purposeful movement is connected to 
something they want or desire. It is your task to immediately 
provide your children with the object or experience the signed 
word symbolizes when they perform the gesture you model. 
Your contingent and consistent response supports the emerging receptive language skills of your children.

So how do you know if a child is signing? Here are some 
clues:

Step Three: Children Express Using Signs

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• She repeats the same gesture. She may make the same gesture whenever she listens to music, and the context of her 
purposeful and often repeated motion helps you determine 
her meaning. Once you understand what she requests, you 
can begin to provide music for her when she asks.

• The gesture appears to have a purpose and is performed with 
passion. What starts as a small movement may intensify in 
speed and size when her need is not met. This may feel like 
a guessing game for you, but it is your job to provide the spoken and signed word she is approximating. You will know 
when you are successful by the look of relief on her face, as 
if she is stating, “Finally you understand, silly person!”

• Her proximity to an object provides a clue. She can locomote 
toward the object of her desire but may need your help to 
actually procure the item. For instance, a box of crackers 
on the counter may be out of her reach. She begins to pound 
one fist on top of the other or another likely sign approximation for her desired snack food. She may offer other clues 
such as pointing, vocalizing, or directing her gaze toward 
her beloved cracker box.

• Her physical or mental state provides the context you need 
to determine what she will request. Perhaps she is tired 
and begins to repeatedly perform a sign approximation for 
BLANKET by touching her chin as she lays prone on the 
floor. As early childhood professionals, we are masterful at 
recognizing her distress and quickly responding with the 
support she likely needs. Show your appreciation for her 
signing efforts in the throes of her discomfort by thanking 
her for “using her words” to ask for her blanket.

at the wave of a hand—or the squeeze, tap, pat, or wiggle of a 
hand—whatever the sign requires. 
Now that your children are imitating signs and using

Now that your children are imitating signs and using 
them to request and express, try asking something with your 
spoken words only. For example, when a child can consistently 
imitate your ALL-DONE sign, say: “We are all done now.” Then 
ask: “What are we?” and wait for her to show you her ALL-
DONE sign. This technique will help her learn to ask for what 
she wants or needs without having to see you sign the word for 
her. She will be able to recall the gesture all on her own to ask 
for what she needs without your prompt.
After young children can imitate gestures and under-

After young children can imitate gestures and understand that there is a connection between hand shapes and 
words, their sign vocabulary typically takes off. I have known 
children who waited 6 months before using their first signed 
word, and 1 week later they added a dozen more signs to their 
conversations with others. 
Continue to follow the lead of your children in adding new

Continue to follow the lead of your children in adding new 
signs. Focus on their interests and preferences and observe a 
child’s most frequent requests. Try combining words into twoword phrases such as PEACH PLEASE or PLAY BUBBLE when 
children are consistently using single signed words expressively.

Using American Sign Language 
with Hearing Young Children

• Young children have remarkable facility for learning multiple languages. Adding key signed words allows youngsters 
to communicate with their peers who are deaf or utilize 
sign as an alternate form of communication due to autism, 
Down syndrome, or other language disorders.

• Parents who sign during the infancy and toddlerhood of 
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often the preferred “sign teachers” of the youngest family 
member. This creates opportunities for older children to 
continue to practice and use sign in their conversations as a 
family. Those skills can then be used in a variety of community settings with individuals who are deaf or hard of hearing. This may create an early interest in continued study 
of ASL. Many high schools now offer ASL as a course that 
fulfills the foreign language requirement for students.

Signs in song are often repeated for the duration of the 
phrase to enhance the musicality of the experience and may be 
performed with larger gestures than when signing speech. ASL 
words that are spoken instead of sung are typically repeated 
once for verbs and twice for nouns. It is important to mention 
that repeating a sign may change the meaning of the ASL word. 
For instance, signing FEEL repeatedly may be understood as 
EXCITED by a person fluent in sign language. Given that the 
audience of our Sing & Sign program includes young hearing 
children and their early childhood teachers and caregivers, 
this is not a particular concern for our ASL use. Young children 
need to be able to repeat the signed words to be able to master 
them. Music allows them the time and engaging context for 
that repetition. 
Teaching fingerspelling and extensive ASL vocabulary

Teaching fingerspelling and extensive ASL vocabulary 
is beyond the scope of this book. If you are interested in learn-

ing ASL in more depth, there are courses that may be available 
to you in your community that teach grammar, syntax, and 
vocabulary unique to ASL, which is used in communication 
with deaf adults. 
Many parents find that web-based sign language diction-

Here are a few web resources to recommend for that 
purpose:

Many parents find that web-based sign language dictionaries are helpful to learn words to augment those taught in the 
Sing & Sign program. You might want to include signed vocabulary around some of your child’s favorite objects or activities, 
such as W H A L E , WAG ON, or WAFFLE. 
Here are a few web resources to recommend for that

Hand Speak, www.handspeak.com

American Sign Language University, www.lifeprint.com

Hand Formations

The adult model in pictures throughout the book demonstrates 
the vocabulary using ASL. Here are some key hand formations that you will use to perform basic sign vocabulary. When 
referred to in the book, hand formations appear in italics.

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Speech Development

Teaching babies and toddlers sign language has been shown 
to support the development of their emerging speech. You are 
giving them the opportunity to “flex their language muscles” 
as their vocal mechanism and language processing skills 
develop, so it is essential that you combine your signs with 
spoken words. 
Parents often worry about what to expect regarding their

Parents often worry about what to expect regarding their 
child’s development of speech. When should my child be talking? How many words should she be saying and how often? 
This is particularly true when their first- or second-born child 
provides a point of comparison for their baby’s language skills. 
Perhaps big brother or sister talked sooner or more often than 
the new baby. Most experts agree that, in general, firstborn 
and girl babies are the earliest talkers, and there is a wide 
range of what is considered to be typical language development in young children.
Parents should pay attention not only to what infants and

Children stop crawling when they learn to walk because 
walking is easier. The same is true for sign and speech. Children typically stop signing when they can say a word so that it 
is understood by others. They may return to a default word on 
occasion if they are tired (please, more, milk, bed) or not certain you can understand their spoken word (elephant, encyclopedia). 
The goal of the Sing & Sign program is to create activi-

Parents should pay attention not only to what infants and 
toddlers express through sign language and speech but also 
to how well the child understands and responds to what others say to her (“Where is the monkey on the page of your book? 
Point to the monkey in the picture”). The American Academy 
of Pediatrics (2020) suggests that by 24 months, toddlers 
should be able to combine two or three spoken words into sentences. They should also be able to follow simple instructions 
and repeat words they hear in conversation.

The goal of the Sing & Sign program is to create activities that you can enjoy with your children while connecting 
with them in a more meaningful way. Although research does 
suggest that the use of singing can enhance overall communication skills for children, this may not be the case for every 
child. The activities and information in this book are in no 
way intended to substitute for the expertise and assistance of 
a speech-language pathologist and are not meant to replace 
speech or language therapy. If you have any concerns about the 
development of a child, particularly in the area of communication, please refer the child’s family to their pediatrician or recommend that they contact their local infant–toddler program 
or school district for screening information.
