Introducing The Pyramid Model: A Practical Guide to Social Emotional Learning

Unpacking the Pyramid Model: A Practical Guide for Preschool Teachers

Created by Pyramid Model developers and experts, this is the first book to provide a comprehensive, step-by-step overview of the Pyramid Model for children ages 2–5. bpub.fyi/Unpacking-PM

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Objectives

By the end of today’s chat, you will be able to:

  1. Name two indicators for determining the presence of a friendship between young children;
  2. Describe class-wide, small group/partners, and individualized teaching strategies and supports for teaching friendship skills across daily routines & activities; and
  3. Describe steps for partnering with families to support children’s development of friendships.

Pyramid Model for Promoting the Social and Emotional Competence of Young Children

Tertiary Intervention Few
Secondary Prevention Some
Universal Promotion All
A Framework of Evidence-Based Practices

Key Social Emotional Skills Children Need as They Enter School


When Do Friendship Skills Develop?

Age Relationships with Caregivers Relationships with Peers Social-Emotional Skills
0 to 12 months Recognize voices Imitate caregivers Express excitement More refined crying Shows more in objects than peers Begins to understand own name Demonstrates strong feelings
12 to 18 months Prefers known individuals Expresses distress when separated from caregiver Can point or gaze to communicate requests Shows interest in peers by observing them Explores environment Demonstrates independence
18 to 24 months Prefers caregivers to others May demonstrate separation anxiety Begins to play independently Engages in more complex verbal interactions Continues to observe peers closely Begins to engage in parallel play Continues to display independence Experiences mood swings
24 to 36 months Can play, share, and take turns with adult support Shows concern for others Uses names for self and others
36 to 48 months Engages in independent play Separates from caregivers with ease Interacts with peers often through play and conversation Begins to show emotional regulation Learning to label and describe emotions
48 to 60+ months Forms preferred friendships Socially competent with peers Plays games with other children Can take turns in conversations Develops cooperation skills Describes emotions Can problem solve and resolve conflict with adult support

Adapted from Barton, 2014

What Can You Do Early On – to Promote the Development of Friendship Skills?

• Read books about friends, playing together, helping each other, etc. • Provide opportunities to practice

Friendship Skills

• Gives suggestions (play organizers)
• Shares toys & other materials
• Takes turns (reciprocity)
• Is helpful (assists)
• Affectionate
• Give compliments
• Understands how & when to check-in and give an apology
• Begins to empathize
• Responding to & maintaining initiations

Teaching Friendship Skills: Class-wide Approaches

Universal Promotion
All

Sample Lessons to Support Development of Friendship Skills

• Autograph book of friends
• “My friend” art (it takes two)
• Friendship can: Put names in can, children draw name, make something special for a friend
• Pair up to plant seeds of friendship and care for together
• Compliment links
• Friendship books
• Autograph book of friends
• Friendship music/songs

Using Children’s Literature

Book Nooks

I Can Share Rainbow Fish

By Karen Katz By Marcus Pfister

Teaching Friendship Skills: Secondary Strategies & Supports

Secondary Prevention Some

Peer-mediated Interventions

Adults

Training Sessions

Peer Buddies

Peer Buddy Implementation

Target Children

Milam et al., 2018 Peer-mediated Interventions: Stay-Play-Talk Teaching Friendship Skills: Individualized Teaching Strategies & Supports Tertiary Intervention Few
24 12

Visuals – Initiating Play

Step 1
I can tap my friend on the shoulder.
Step 2
I can say “let’s play!”
Step 3
I can gently take a friend by the hand.
Step 4
I can give my friend a toy that I want to share.

Fostering Friendships through Family Partnerships

• Learn from families
• Share with families
• Help families promote friendship skill development at home
• Share strategies for teaching friendship skills

Benefits of Having Friends

• Increase self-esteem and self-confidence
• Help you develop social skills
• Less disruptive/inappropriate behavior
• More positive attitudes about people with disabilities
• Equal if not greater, developmental progress
• Contribute to quality of life
• Build our capacity to empathize

In Summary

• Close friendships are reciprocal, voluntary, and yield many benefits for young children’s social emotional development and academic success
• Friendship skills help children form and maintain friendships
• Friendship skills can be taught using a variety of materials.


Contact Information:

Lori
Lori.meyer@uvm.edu
Molly
mmilam1@ycp.edu
Micki
ostrosky@illinois.edu

Certificates

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